Supporting Your Child After an ADHD Diagnosis

Supporting Your Child After an ADHD Diagnosis

It is estimated that 8.8% of the population ages 4-17 have ADHD. (1) The road to an ADHD diagnosis may vary in length for families and can be accompanied by many different feelings and reactions. There may be questions about the impact of an ADHD diagnosis on the individual and family and academic and social endeavors. Parental support is an essential cornerstone in the treatment of ADHD, and it can be empowering to explore the many ways you and your child can work together to create opportunities for healthy development and growth with a variety of tools that can be used at home, in school, or with the support of a counselor.

The journey following an ADHD diagnosis can be marked by various challenges for both the individual and their family. Common challenges include difficulties sustaining attention, impulsivity, and hyperactivity. These challenges may manifest in academic settings, impacting tasks that require focus and organization. It's crucial to understand that ADHD is not a one-size-fits-all condition. There are three main presentations: predominantly inattentive presentation, predominantly hyperactive-impulsive presentation, and combined presentation. Each presentation brings its own set of characteristics, with some individuals primarily struggling with attention and focus, others with hyperactivity and impulsivity, and some experiencing a combination of both. (2) Recognizing the specific presentation and subtype is key to tailoring effective strategies and interventions for optimal parental support.

Strategies for Parental Support at Home

Establish Structured Routines

Children with ADHD often thrive in routines as they offer a sense of security and reduce uncertainty. A structured routine helps create a framework for daily activities, allowing children to better manage their time and tasks. Additionally, this predictability can ease the transition between activities which reduces the likelihood of children becoming overwhelmed or distracted. Routines aid in developing essential organization skills that can help manage symptoms of ADHD. 

Chores & Responsibilities

Incorporating simple step directions and visual aids into chores and responsibilities at home can help ensure that daily tasks are completed. Children with ADHD often face challenges in organizing tasks and following instructions due to deficits in executive functioning. (4) Breaking down activities into manageable steps provides clarity and reduces feelings of stress. Simple step-by-step directions offer a clear roadmap, making it easier for the child to understand and execute tasks independently. Visual aids, such as charts or diagrams, complement verbal instructions and cater to different learning styles, reinforcing the information and making it more accessible. This visual support not only enhances comprehension but also serves as a constant reminder, promoting consistency in completing chores. By integrating these elements into daily routines, parents empower children with ADHD to navigate responsibilities more successfully, fostering a sense of accomplishment and self-efficacy.

Homework Support

Completing homework may be a challenge for children with ADHD. Providing an environment with limited distractions can be helpful as children may struggle with impulsivity or inattention by increasing their ability to focus on the task at hand. Short breaks from homework and breaking homework tasks into smaller, manageable steps help to teach children how to manage their time. Providing words of encouragement, positive reinforcement, and acknowledging the effort your child is putting into their homework time can also increase motivation to complete academic tasks. 

Open Communication

Children with ADHD need support and guidance from their parents, and engaging in open communication allows your child to feel empowered to be self-directed and responsible for their learning. Having conversations about what is going well and areas for improvement models evaluative thinking and allows for problem-solving. In addition to enhancing skills surrounding executive functioning, communicating with your child openly allows for the strengthening of the parent-child relationship through empathetic connection. 

The Role of Therapy with ADHD Diagnosis

Therapy plays a pivotal role in supporting children with an ADHD diagnosis by offering targeted techniques that extend beyond the academic and home settings. Therapy equips both the child and their parents with valuable strategies to manage challenges associated with ADHD. Therapists work collaboratively with families to identify specific behaviors, develop coping mechanisms, and implement structured interventions. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) may be employed to address emotional aspects of the diagnosis and its symptoms and foster self-regulation. Neurofeedback is another therapeutic approach that has positive results when done in conjunction with psychotherapy which you can read more about here. Through therapy, children with ADHD can enhance their social skills, improve impulse control, and develop a positive self-image. Moreover, therapists can provide valuable guidance for parents on implementing effective parenting techniques and maintaining consistent routines at home. 

The Importance of Self-Care for Parents

Navigating the complexities of parenting a child with ADHD can be emotionally taxing, and parents must prioritize self-care to prevent the unintentional release of frustrations on their children. Creating a routine of self-care practices, whether taking short breaks, engaging in hobbies, or seeking support from friends or professionals, allows parents to recharge emotionally. Mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing or meditation, can be particularly effective in managing stress. By consciously addressing their emotional well-being, parents can cultivate patience and resilience, reducing the likelihood of expressing frustrations toward their children. It's essential for parents to recognize that self-care is not a luxury but a necessity, and taking time for personal well-being ultimately contributes to a more positive and supportive parenting environment for children with ADHD.

Building a Support Network

Engaging teachers, school administrators, and other significant adults in a collaborative effort is instrumental in providing comprehensive support for a child with ADHD. Open communication with teachers ensures they are aware of the child's unique needs, allowing for tailored strategies within the classroom setting. Working closely with the school regarding the implementation of accommodations, such as extended time on assignments or a quiet space for focused work can ensure academic success. Involving healthcare providers, counselors, and other professionals ensures a holistic approach to the child's well-being, as they can contribute insights into therapeutic interventions and medication management if necessary. The benefits of this collaborative approach are manifold – it promotes a unified understanding of the child's strengths and challenges, fosters consistency across different environments, and allows for the sharing of effective strategies. Ultimately, the adults in a child’s life can create a supportive ecosystem that enhances their academic and overall development, fostering a more inclusive and understanding educational experience.


Receiving an ADHD diagnosis may entail a period of adjustment for both the child and their family. Supporting a child with ADHD involves adapting daily routines, effective communication strategies, and parenting approaches to cater to the unique needs of the child. It's a transformative process that may present challenges initially but can ultimately lead to a more informed and supportive environment for the child's growth and development. If your child or family is struggling to cope after receiving an ADHD diagnosis, reach out to Heritage Counseling at 214-363-2345 to set up an appointment and explore various treatment options tailored to fit your needs. If you are interested in having your child assessed for ADHD, you can learn more about our ADHD Assessment here.